Three months ago, to the day, our lives changed forever. On June 12th, my husband had a heart attack and two strokes. It happened without warning. He’d arrived home from work as he always does. He stopped by my home office and flirted a little, and then the next time I saw him, he was sprawled out on the bathroom floor, unresponsive but conscious. The moment I saw him, I was like a child wanting their mother. In truth, that was the first call I made. It was automatic. If something is wrong, call mom. She did what any matriarch would do; she immediately got me to focus and to call 9-1-1.
Since that fateful day, we have spent over three weeks living at hospitals. At first, thinking it would be a one-episode event, we tried to remain hopeful. Less than a week and a half after starting outpatient therapy, we were back in the ER specifically because of his heart. He’s long had heart issues since he had rheumatic heart fever as a child, but had managed it with medication. Then life happened, and he missed taking some of his medications for longer than he should have. I honestly think that was the catalyst. Eighteen years my senior, he forgets that he’s not as spry as he once was. We are aging. Because of his recent strokes, transcatheter heart surgery was our next step.
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